Why should you be worrying about what other people think? Doing so just shows others that you don't have any love for yourself which in turn they sense that weakness and it makes yourself an easy target for judgement and criticism.What you choose to do and say is up to you and it should not matter what others have to say about it. If it makes you happy then d it! Don`t think of yourself as a fool because others judge you because of your wanting to feel good. Always be aware of yourself if you are being self conscious because it is a serious thing. Never doubt yourself. Always strive to get what you want when you know it will make you feel good about yourself.
That being said, here are a few ways to counter act being self consciousness. Follow these steps and youll NEVER have to worry about what others have to say again.
- Get the facts straight. In a situation where you are under the "spotlight", recognize that not everybody is surgically picking out every detail you say, whether its a presentation, board meeting, etc.
- Decrease your incidences where you get self conscious feelings. How that can happen is by being more prepared for public situations. Mentally preparing yourself goes along way, and it can help you fight your battle with self consciousness.
- ALWAYS think positively. Never have a strain of doubt or negative thoughts what ever the situation. always believe you can do it, because you can. anybody can. You just need to have that sense of want.
- Fight your fear. Go up there thinking you will be alright. Not everybody is knit picking your every move so cut out thoughts that you might be doing something wrong. With that, what people think of you should not matter regardless. You are you because of you. You do things to make yourself happy, not to make others happy.
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